Not a bucket list. These are the things that actually take up the week.
Dancing
Bachata, badly, in public
I danced salsa and hip hop a long time ago, then spent decades in tech and didn't
dance a step. Now I'm learning one choreography — Elwin y Gaby's “Barcelona” — with
a different teacher and partner in every city I pass through. Da Nang took ten
lessons before I trusted the basic step. Jakarta was where the counts finally made
sense. It ends, eventually, in Barcelona.
Stops so far · Da Nang · Jakarta · Saigon next · follow the tour
Photography
Night portraits
Years behind the camera before the dance shoes. City light after dark, and the slow
work of getting skin tones right in an edit at two in the morning.
Kit · Sony A7R V · Dubai, 2022
Travel
Staying long enough to be a regular
Not sightseeing. Staying until I have a coffee place, a studio, a class and three
phone numbers — in cities where I don't speak the language and get by on gesture,
patience and a translation app.
This year · Vietnam · Indonesia · UK company, Asian hours
Building
AI, used like a tool and not a personality
My day job is a UK IT consultancy, and most of what I build now is software that
does the boring half of a working day. The promise I hold myself to is
stay human in a digital world: the machines take the admin, people
keep the interesting part.
Company · NSM Technologies Ltd, UK
Moving
The body, rebuilt
A health scare made me rethink what I wanted my days to look like. Zumba classes in
Da Nang were step one — that is also where my first dance partner came from.
Started · after the scare, not before
Stillness
Sitting still on purpose
There is a reason for the second half of the name. Sitting quietly, and the older
habit of shutting up and paying attention, is what keeps the travelling from
turning into running.
Practice · quiet, daily, unglamorous
People
Strangers who become the story
Teachers, dancers, photographers, language-exchange tables, the advanced student in
Jakarta who danced the partner's side so I could learn mine. Every good thing on
this project arrived through someone I hadn't met yet.
Rule · say yes to the coffee